I am full of inspiration and hope today. Jared's family is still dealing with the tragedy of the past week, but we are so fortunate to have so much love and support from all directions in our lives.
Last night I was speaking with my father about philosophy. Philosophy comes up a lot in our conversations. My father is a Buddhist and chants/meditates twice daily. There is a specific silent prayer that is given to those who have been lost in life. My father and I were discussing this prayer with one another in lieu of recent events. My father was explaining that this prayer is meant to have one reflect on our deep connection to all those around us. He said that this prayer helps one realize the importance of empathy and compassion for all people.
I know this concept sounds really hippie dippy. However, I was struck by the importance of the explanation of this prayer in day to day life. We know that life is not guaranteed. Jared and I have realized that moments are more special and precious than we will ever truly appreciate. I feel that it is so important to find love and compassion for everyone that you may contact in your life. Jared and I are making a new goal for ourselves to cherish every interaction we make with others. Ryan was a person who we grew to love, but never truly cherished in every moment. For that, we will always regret our inability to recognize the uncertainty of tomorrow. We would like to start today, in honor of our dear brother in-law, to recognize the best in every individual. We are trying hard to tone down the critic in us that inhibits us from seeing how far love can transform our opinions of others.
We love our family and friends so dearly. We hope that we can honor and respect people in every moment of life.
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These are wonderful thoughts! I too need to join you in doing this.... a very, fantastic goal.
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